Friday, April 11, 2014

Rest in Peace, Daisy May.

Hello Friends!

It's hard to explain where you've been when you've been gone for so long.

We lost our sweet girl Daisy in November. Just a few days before Thanksgiving.
Needless to say, I didn't feel very celebratory for the whole holiday season. I mostly sat it out. I got sick around Christmas. The season was a bust. Daisy was 13 1/2. She was like our child. A family member. Very loved and cherished. I'm SO glad we spent the summer just hanging out with her. We bought her a pool after I saw a lady with a disabled dog use it for therapy.

We put it up and she didn't stay out of the pool from June-September. She swam every day. Always clockwise. Never counterclockwise. It was hilarious. This is my nephew Emerson pretending to drown my husband Brad. Why this is funny? Daisy didn't care what was going on! She'd only growl when they got in the way of her laps.

She was old and had arthritis and joint pain (sidebar: Cosequin works like MAGIC for that in older dogs. After a month on it, she was running again.) and the pool was good for her. She lost a few pounds after a summer of swimming!

"You're in my way, Dad!"

It's hard to look at these photos without feeling incredibly sad. I can't believe she's no longer here although obviously..she hasn't been here since November.  I take solace in the fact that she had a very good life and was healthy until the last few months. I'm also SO glad I stayed off of the computer for the summer and LIVED life with her. She had lots of walks, swimming and she loved smelling flowers in the yard.

This was her favorite spot to hang out. I truly believe she thought "I could watch my Dad work ALL day!" That's where her pool was in the back (large, round, dead-of-grass area). We took it down because she had a bad rash that would not go away (not due to the swimming pool but an autoimmune disorder that she had.) Look at those cute spots!

She had the softest fur. My best friend said she looked like she should be in a shampoo commercial. AGREED! I loved to kiss her head and it always smelled faintly of fruit. How is that possible?

Going out on the flower walk with her sidekick, Curtis. This is sweet because as she aged, he became her eyes and ears.

Making the rounds. She's buried back here as it was her favorite spot. Peonies and sedum bloom here and we'll add some daisies and other plants here soon.

Regardless of how warm it was, she was chilly after her swimming. We'd dry her off and get her cozy and she'd spend a few hours napping.

He misses his sister, but is well overall. The saddest part (and there were many that were devastating) was when we buried her in the backyard (with her favorite toys, blanket and some gifts from Emerson, our nephew and the only child she ever loved.) and Curtis tried digging and then sat there crying. It was heartbreaking.

So...this is where I've been. I don't want to be a bummer, but I want to honor her life. She was here. She mattered. She is still loved. And she's so very missed.
She also always believed she was a "fall" as far as colors!

She loved:
Carob cookies (dog kind. Found at Petco)
Vanilla sandwich cookies (dog kind.)
Adhering to schedules

Commercials with doorbells (she'd freak out)
Most people. It seemed everyone was a stranger to her!
The word "Oof"

Rest in Peace and Love, Sweet Girl.



rachel said...

What a sweet girl! All dogs are special, but every now and then you get lucky and find your "soul mate" dog. Her life was great because you made it so!

Glad to see you blogging again!

Tina@WhatWeKeep said...

Sweet Daisy. I am thinking to myself that she would have liked me, even though she was so very particular about her humans. I can still hear the pain in your words. You were just where you should have been last year...with Daisy and Curtis and Em and Brad. I will always think of her swimming her laps. xoxo

Andi Filante said...

Oh Tina!!! My heart breaks for you! I know what it is to have your heart completely owned by your fur baby. I'm so glad you were able to spend that time with her and that you have so many cherished memories of her!

-andi said...

Thanks Ladies!

It felt cathartic to write as well as terribly sad. I met her when she was already 6, so I feel like I didn't have enough time with her!

TOT- she was picky. But GOOD picky. She would have liked you! I just know it. xx

Nicole said...

I always love your pictures of Daisy. She was a very lucky pup to have you and Brad and sweet Curtis as her family. And her boy Emerson. The single thing I don't like about dogs--how fleeting the time we have them in our lives.

Thinking about you xxoo

Anonymous said...

I miss her so much!!!

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